小孩子不上學(xué)自己在家教可以嗎?可以,但是當(dāng)小孩子不上學(xué)怎么辦?是我自己的責(zé)任嗎?
小十點家 小十點 兒子,你怎么不上學(xué)?是不是跟老師有矛盾?你跟老師有矛盾?
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小十點的答案五花八門:
上學(xué)沒有鬧,自己一個人做不做。
他們早上不上學(xué),其實是他們內(nèi)心的煎熬和痛苦。這個痛苦,不是生病,而是不愿意繼續(xù)上學(xué)。這種不舒服,需要別人去理解和幫忙,但是不愿意做。
他們已經(jīng)很努力了,成績就是上不去,為什么不愿意去學(xué)校?
小十點老師希望你不要有這種想法,我們當(dāng)父母的,要允許孩子有這種感覺,但這種感覺很容易讓孩子感覺很焦慮,如果孩子一直沉浸在這種焦慮的情緒中,那么孩子就沒有辦法發(fā)揮出自己的潛能,也就失去了學(xué)習(xí)的動力。
在這里,小十點老師希望每一位家長都能冷靜下來,不要讓自己的情緒,影響到孩子的情緒,不要讓孩子感覺到,因為情緒是控制不了的。在這種情緒下,你如何去教育孩子,怎么去跟孩子溝通,是很難的。
你的教育方法有問題,也許可以試試“3T原則”。
1、共情關(guān)注(Tsentment)
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